F.A.M.E. Family Association for Mental Health Everywhere

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Family Resource Kit

Helpful Hints for Families


  • Work towards accepting the illness and it's challenging consequences.

  • Develop realistic expectations for your family member and yourself.

  • Accept all the help and support you can get. Don't be afraid to ask!

  • Join a support group.

  • Eat right, exercise, and stay healthy.

  • Stay optimistic and take care of yourself.

  • Try thinking in terms of "brain" illness, instead of mental illness. This can be helpful in dealing with both external and internal stigma.

  • Let go of the guilt.

  • Remember that NO family is perfect-- whatever you did, or did not do, you DID NOT cause your family member's illness.

  • Find a new hobby for yourself and the person who is ill. Remember to laugh, take walks and nurture yourself.

  • Every problem is a solution waiting to happen. Ask a F.A.M.E. worker or a trusted friend for help if you have run out of new ideas.

  • If you feel that you are "going in circles", take a break. Try to be creative if the old approach is no longer working.

  • Continue to educate yourself about your family member's illness.


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